A journey and its happiness, here and there

Have you been on a journey?

I won't ask from or where you've been, because it doesn't matter actually, that people usually care about more.

Do you realize, what makes you happy and satisfied when you arrived at the end of your journey, is the journey itself. Often we choose to get somewhere easily, with the most comfort way, yeah of course, who doesn't want it anyway?

Good for you, who can get on to that journey, but somehow, what we want is actually forgetting what we need. Anyway, I would like to take you to take a glimpse of a journey, wether you take it in anyways.

Prepare yourself for a hard side, on a journey. (-That's why maybe the comfort journey can't make an equal analogy here. So imagine a bit hard or adventurous journey.-) Hard side doesn't mean a bad side, it's just a side that makes people aware of it. Trough the journey, if then we see a lot of good side happen, it would be our own gratefulness, despite of we think of good things that will happen, and then we get mad when unexpected things happen.

One of the journey that people go trough is relationship.
Once, i've met someone, very simple, unpredictably gave statement that opened up my eyes.
"Don't only think about your partners abilities because relationship is about tolerating handicaps and both matchless things." And then I realized, handicaps are the more and easiest things to be found than the abilities. Someone or something who has such a great number of abilities,
often ruined when a handicap is found.

So by doing that principle, I believe there will be more happiness here and there :)
Have an amusing journey.

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Where are we right now?

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I would say I was on the ground, and now I'm climbing up to the mountain. Everybody seems want to walk up to the mountain, but actually many of them are happy just to be on the ground. I decided to go up to the mountain, so I can see everywhere from up there. After that, i would decide where to go again, to the sea, to the sky, or just stay on the mountain path, so i easily go down or up again.

I won't stay long at one point for a long time i guess, cause actually i don't know what will be going to happen. So, i just stay alert, where suddenly i will be and where the wind blows me.

There's no right or wrong, of being somewhere. We just need to emphasize where we are, and delight in every little thing we have. Sometimes we are just too comfortable at one place, and maybe become a conqueror there, sometimes a looser, and perhaps just usual human being. Me? I just wanna be useful.

What remain in my head is, i try to become the best of me. I wouldn't mind if one day i would spend the rest of my life at the sea. Discovering the watery and freedom where the wave bring me. Exploring the sea creatures, plankton and the anemon, the clown fish, sharks and the whale or even sea treasures. Maybe I could sometimes sail to the beach and stay at an island, or fly into the sky and feel the cloud to breathe.

Now and then, don't forget where you belonged, the journey and efforts brought you to, the memories of good times or hard times, cause you don't decide, and there's no level of being somewhere is high or low. The world is a nature, every little space of it, we the people are the one who destruct it, in coincidence or on purpose. If you don't act well, the nature will, your attitude play the role. You will be drown into the sea or swim in it freely , fall down from a mountain or reach the peak greatly. So watch out the steps you walk on.

Have your life :)

Chill It, Baby

This episode is like a friend of mine.

Too many minds. Often can't figure it out. Escape is like what I need, although I even often forget how to. Actually it's as simple as earphone and space.

How if minds are something small, and when they gathered, becoming something big and make us dizzy. We just need some time, to take care of them. Separate them for a while, take some priority and catchy one to think about, or to talk about with, fortunately to be solved. If it's hard, maybe it's just not about time to be decoded. So, keep it away, chill it. Take another mind if you still have the time and energy. If not, don't push it so hard. Sometime we just have to chill them out, and fry them when we hungry of minds :P

It's not hard actually to unravel them, we just need time and skills to manage it. Don't be afraid, more minds, you will increase your skill to manage them.

There you go, this episode is like a friend of mine. It doesn't say a thing, it only listens and gives some spaces for me to talk about something (actually write it) and somehow things straighten up or chilled? :)

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Plans, Ways, and Coffee

Today I have plans.. Going to a coffee shop near my house, and do some daily shopping afterward.

I should drive to the right, but it stuck suddenly. Then I go left, planning to go trough the lanes inside the main road. Yeah, it's out of nowhere, blocked. (- Okay, I actually a thinker, may be not in a positive way. I mean, I think about every little thing, also the big thing, however it's not too good actually for your health.-)

Anyway, I really don't wanna think today, please? So, after I found a few 'have to turn and drive another way' I decided to take the u turn, and back to main road. I've been thinking of going to another coffee shop, but i don't know why, I'd rather to take further way and still going to that coffee shop i wanted to go.

Nothing so special about the coffee shop, I'm just a person who somehow need spaces from home today, going somewhere alone to think (again) clearly, or just not to think and write like now :) I can't tweet cause it will just make people think I'm exposing my wobbly personality :P

However, I just noted from today 'u turn driving', that people may have plans, but actually God decides for us. While doing the plans, sometimes He will drive us away further, harder to get to our goal, or even closer and way easier to get it. He may try us, He wants to see us, how we handle it, our emotions, our willing.. We sometimes make things harder by not takin' it easy (I did), and sometimes don't think about everything around us, and realize that we just sometimes don't need to be focusing on the plans, on the barriers, instead, we just have to enjoy the journey, and make it as beautiful memories, so we can smile when we look back.

Enjoy! :)

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It's Just It..

Thinking..
Wandering..
Exploring..
Realizing..
Seizing..